Last night I tried to give Brad a hint when I asked him to put lotion on my legs after I got out of the shower. I’m perfectly capable of doing this myself, but if I want to be enticing this is a good way to go about it… I’ll skip the reasons why. It would be a little too much for my innocent little blog 😉
It didn’t really work because the kids were still awake, and then we watched a movie.
So later when we went back to bed…….
Ally: Are you up for anything?
Brad: Like what? Did you have something in mind?
Ally: Mmmmm… I don’t know… maybe… (you know, ’cause I’m a staight forward kind of girl)
Brad: Are you talking about a quickie, or do you want the whole nine yards?
Ally: (Thinking………) I’d settle for a quickie….BUT I am really starting to miss the whole nine yards, I’m starting to get a little cranky (I did get approximately “5 yards” on Christmas Eve, which is which is why I was happy with a quickie and he has to work in the morning)
Brad: You’re getting cranky? (laughing)
(Ok, maybe I’ve kept that on the inside. I had a wonderful two days, Christmas and Christmas Eve, and we had a blast with all of our family, but now that it’s past I feel about 10 lbs lighter.)
Ally: Yep, cranky.
(fast forward to after quickie)
Ally: You know, they say that men who have 5 orgasms a week live longer… (I heard this on a talk show back in the college days and I have never forgotten it, I have no idea if it’s true or not) I don’t think that’s very hard to achieve.
Brad: No, not for us, but for average people (haha, avg people?)…. it seems like the avg for most couples if they’re lucky is once a week.
Ally: (LOL, that used to be us) I guess being kinky is the trick, all the kinky bloggers I know seem to be having plenty of sex, aren’t you glad we’re kinky?
Adding spanking and D/s to our relationship made a big difference in our relationship and completely transformded our sex life for the better. It’s a lot of work, and we are still working on it, but I can’t imagine it not being there.
How has being kinky or whatever you have changed affected your sex life?